Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 07:46

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

If the world was flat, would it be possible to see Mount Everest if it was on the other side of the Earth on a clear sunny day?

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

No country for ugly people…

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Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

What’s something you’ve learned that you think everyone should know, but nobody talks about?